Sunday, September 30, 2012

Where and how to meet girls in Skopje

Skopje Girls. They are sweet, beautiful, cultured and down to earth.


Where can you meet them?

 

Skopje is offering a wast possibilities for meeting a local Skopje girls. There are many coffee shops, dance or disco clubs and night clubs where a single male persons can go and meet girls. Also if you travel to Skopje for a business or you will work there you can meet girls in your work place, in the neighborhood where you will stay or in the many shops, market or any other place you will go during your stay in Macedonia.


Skopje Girls dancing at the disco club
If you come in Skopje for a first time and have a plans to stay longer you need a few good info from the first hand. In this moment and here that would be me. I will try to give you some free (not cheap) tips so you can have a more interesting and happier stay in Skopje Macedonia.

Etiquette

 

Coffee shops

 

The coffee time is very important for the people in Macedonia no matter are they Macedonians or they are members of other ethnic groups. Invitation "Let's go for a cup of coffee" is a very popular way to invite your friend (or a person you just meet) for a few hours of casual chat and good time out of the office or home. This is the casual and proper way to say somebody, you have a good impression for her or him, and you will like to spend a few hours more together. In Skopje this is not intruding or rude. The invited girl or other person can take your invitation without any promise from the both sides. If invited person refuse to have a cup of coffee with you, this does not need to mean she do not like you. This can simply mean she don't have a time at the moment and if she like you she will (or not) offer excuse and even suggest different time to have a coffee with you. If you do not have success the first time You can invite her again to have a coffee with you a few days later.

do's and don'ts:
  • You can invite coworkers, business friends, friends friends or coworker friends you meet on a party or somewhere else, girls from the neighborhood if you see them every day and have a few words now and then, girl from the local market if you sense she is interested to meet you out of her working place...
  • Don't invite people you just meet today.




Dance Clubs


Dance clubs or disco clubs are very popular in Skopje even for the people who never dance?! Usually it is odd to go in a dance club alone. You always go in dance club with a wing-man or two. Going in a larger groups is not my advice for you. Two or three is the best number, because Skopje girls also go to dance clubs in this numbers. So you are already there and you have a drink in your hand. If you see any girls you like, slowly (together with your friend) change your place in the club and find a good place near them. Find a way girls to notice you - smile when they watch in your direction or just wave with your hand. Skopje girls usually go in the dance club to meet somebody so this is not a mission impossible. After this just watch how they act. If they watch in your way and say something to each others probably they find you (or your friend) interesting and attractive. Do not wait for a closing time to go and introduce yourself.

do's and don'ts:
  • Go closer, get noticed, introduce yourself in a polite manner, ask what they drink and order a drink. Invite them to join you in a night club.
  • Do not smile like mad man. Don't wave like a windmill. Don't order drinks before you meet them. Do not be a cheap.

Night Club

Going in a night club without any plan is a disaster. There is a slim chance to meet Skopje girls in a night club, without be a regular there. Going today for a first time and hitting on every girl there can be a very bad decision. The best way to meet a girl in a night club is to go there with a friends or coworkers friends. You can have a fun with them and if you see some attractive girl, find a way to meet her at the bar, go after her if she goes out to smoke a cigaret or find some other chance (improvise). If you meet her at the bar just say "hi, how is going" and wait to see how she will react. If you meet her out on a cigarette brake start talking how smokers are in a bad position now and make a conversation out of this. She will be happy to meet a fellow smoker and if you are non smoker, explain you there to have a fresh air. She will be happy to hear how understanding you are even if you do not smoke.


do's and don'ts:
  • Try to have fun. Find a way to check are she alone or with a boyfriend. Make conversation.
  • Do not order drinks before you actually meet Skopje girl.




I hope this article was helpful for anybody abroad who have idea to meet girls in Skopje.